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What is true lovE and how do u define Mr. Right??
2004-04-29 - 2plus to 6plus p.m.

you know people ask you do you believe in true love? what exactly is true love anyway..izzit undying love, someone loving you forever n ever? but does that love exist?

is there such a thing or do we fall in love constantly even when we r in a relationship or marriage? is it true love when even though u fall in love with another as a husband and yet stay true to ur wife?

if homosexuality is wrong...are any of the people u love in that way still considered true love??

is true love living in happiness with that person? is it a person u'll end up with happily married till the day that you die?

or maybe there's no such thing...but you and the other party has a choice to make it happen...

i think a relationship is not merely based on love alone..meaning both parties have to put in alot of effort n time into the relationship...there must be sacrifice...

and honesty...

how about Mr/ms right? What is it?

Izzit a person who has all the qualities you have? Izzit just make believe? "right" is subjective...mr right can be one who is right for u bcos nobody will love you more than him? or maybe he is right for you because he wont cheat? or right because if u get married to him it wont end up in a divorce?

decided to do a survey/research...

1) What is true love?

"very into him...when you're with him...even if the sky drops you wouldn't know."

Cassandra Kheng, 17

"like u wish to always saw tat person u love..."

Kevin, 18

"You don't know? someone who loves you unconditionally and accepts you for who you are."

Faith Liew, 18

"Sacrifice without condition is true love."

Terrence Ong, 28

"I think for true love right, both have to accept each other for who they are..And can be able to tolerate each other's flaws..Etc"

Low Yirong, 17

"True love= when you love some1 unconditionally?"

Matthew Zheng, 21

"True love is when a person accepts u as hu u r n accepts all ur wrongdoings."

Christine, 17

"Its when the person can accept you for who you are...my opinion...Haha"

Linus Yu, 17

"True love is I guess when you would do anything for someone. Like Jesus."

Nigel Ngern, 17

"That you will cherish n love him/her regardless of whether she has hurt u or fallen ill or become poor.Like ur marriage vows."

Adeline Tan, 25

"the feeling you get right after you take a huge dump."

audreybitch , (13-20)

"Where there is selfishness and low passions, there is no true love."

From The Third Testament

Extracted from:

http://www.144000.net/15_love.htm

"The Bible describes real love as more meaningful and more enduring."

Extracted from:

http://www.lifeway.com/tlw/

"True love is so much more than an emotion.

It is an action and a commitment. True love loves even when it doesn't feel like loving."

--Kristi

Extracted from:

http://www.lifeway.com/tlw/

"Love that is true lasts forever."

- Unknown

Extracted from:

http://www.loveisgreat.com/ABOUT_LOVE/TrueLove.html

"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own."

- Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land, 1961, 34.

Extracted from:

http://www.loveisgreat.com/ABOUT_LOVE/TrueLove.html

"A True Love gives you a feeling of being "complete!"

From Japan: An en is a karmic bond lasting a lifetime."

Extracted from:

http://www.loveisgreat.com/ABOUT_LOVE/TrueLove.html

"True love is not an addiction; it’s a virtue. It brings with it not just temporary pleasure but eternal reward."

Extracted from:

http://www.net-burst.net/help/lover.htm

"Marriages crash because love soon loses power if allowed to coast along. Like a supersonic jet, true love requires constant course correction and energy input to keep it from crashing.

If love were genuine, it would be effortless, whispers the Deceiver. On the contrary, it’s by the expenditure of effort that love is proved. The constant effort can seem irksome but it is the effort that turns love into something exquisitely meaningful, rather than a mere robotic response. It is the effort that produces the virtue, the honor and the eternal reward. A husband’s eyes will regularly be drawn to other women. The world and the enemy of our souls will see to that. But true love rises up in the power of Christ and moves a husband to laboriously reprogram his mind as to what genuine beauty really is.

It would seem that as a woman ages, her husband will have an increasingly difficult task to only have eyes for her. As every middle-aged man is painfully aware, gaining wrinkles himself does not suddenly cause a man to find wrinkles attractive. However, if a devoted husband has been faithfully using the passing years in daily discipline and deliberate growing in love, shouldn’t his affection be able to keep pace with his partner’s age?

Beauty indeed is in the eye of the beholder. It is the duty of every married person to find beauty in their partner and to delight in that beauty. "

Extracted from:

http://www.net-burst.net/help/lover.htm

2)What is Mr/Ms. Right??ISsit the same as true love?

"I wouldn't know"

audreybitch , (13-20)

"******* is my Mr. right!!haha

it is like the guy gt all the qualities tat u go for a guy"

Cassandra Kheng, 17

"Mr Right is someone who's willing to share good or bad times with you."

Terrence Ong, 28

"Don't know."

Low Yi Rong, 17

"Same as true love"

Faith Liew, 17

"Mr. right= guy destined 4 u, compatible m lovin. My definitions only!"

Matthew Zheng, 21

"Able to communicate w me.Share sm interests n taller than me."

Adeline Tan, 25

"Mr.Right is who God chooses for you to marry.

Nigel Ngern, 17

"No idea Lol."

Linus Yu, 17

" I think we all live in the eternal hope of finding Mr Right but the truth is that he's a myth; there is no Mr Right. We're all chasing a dream - so let's just say I prefer to be in love with love," says singing sensation Alisha Chinai"

Extracted from:

http://www1.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/cms.dll/articleshow?art_id=395327963

"Mr. Right is an imaginary person that's supposed to define the

perfect man.Each girl, er, woman has a Mr. Right. Even if he doesn't really

exist. He's the kind of man that that woman will look for as a plausible

husband. Every woman's Mr. Right is different, but it's the characteristics

of that fictitional person that they base their relationships on."

An Extract from a fictional story, 'Mr. Right(part1)'

http://members.aol.com/jukilaalaa/page45.html

"Has this Mr. Right ever existed? I sincerely doubt it although I still keep on searching. "

Extracted from:

http://www.cs.uwm.edu/~nguyen/writings/right.htm

"MR. RIGHT/MR. GOOD MAN will quietly and unceremoniously walk up to you and say “Hello”. He’ll be polite and treat you with respect. He’ll treat you like a person and not like a piece of meat. He may start up a conversation.He is interested in your mind. He is interested in how you think, what you think and what makes you think the way that you do. MR. RIGHT/MR.GOOD MAN has integrity. His word is his bond. If he says he’s going to do something, he does it. And if for some reason, after saying that he’ll do something, he finds that he cannot do what he said he would, he will let you know immediately and will tell you why. MR. RIGHT/MR. GOOD MAN is loyal. He will not say unkind things about you to others. If he has a beef with you or has something unkind or derogatory to say about you, he will say what he has to say about you to you. He is honest. He will not play games. He is a man who has a sense of direction. He knows where he wants to go in life and he knows exactly how he is going to get there. He never stops learning. He is always interested in anything and everything. He is curious about everything and anything. When he is wrong, he readily admits his mistake. He has a sense of humor. He is secure enough that he can even laugh at himself. He is warm. He is loving. He is passionate. He is compassionate. He motivates. He inspires. He gives everything 100%. And he expects to receive 100% in return. You can put your life in his hands. In his eyes, you are an equal partner – his partner – his teammate – and together you and he are a team. He will be concerned about your physical, emotional and psychological well-being. He will be concerned about your happiness. He tells you what he likes and what he doesn’t like. He tells you how he’s feeling and what he’s feeling. He’ll tell you that he’s not perfect, but honey, believe me, when I tell you, this man is about as perfect as perfect can get! You’ll never have to play guessing games with this man. And incidentally, if you are the type of woman that’s into playing games, then move on, because this is NOT the kind of man that you should be playing games with. While we’re on the subject, you shouldn’t be playing games with any body – man, woman or child – any way!"

Extracted from:

http://www.alumbo.com/article/9814

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